Gifts for perfectionists.
The best gift for a perfectionist is permission to rest, wrapped in a joke they will get. Pick something useful and funny that says good enough is gold: a mug for slow mornings, a notebook for messy notes, a game that makes letting go feel like play, like the Flexi! card game.
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What do you get a perfectionist?
Flexi! card game
Game night for people who say I'm fine. All 86 skills, with friends or solo. $149.99, printed to order.
See it in the shopThe Recovering Perfectionist Kit
Our biggest gift set, made for the person who rewrites the text three times.
See it in the shopTotally Flawsome mug
Flexi hugging a heart, for coffee that does not need to be perfect.
See it in the shopTotally Flawsome sticker sheet
Little reminders for laptops, planners and water bottles.
See it in the shopGot Overcontrol? mug
The front door joke for the friend who color codes everything.
See it in the shopWhat is a good gift for a people pleaser?
Something just for them. People pleasers rarely buy for themselves, so a gift with a kind joke reads as permission. The Totally Flawsome Trio and a hand towel that says it out loud both work.
What is a thoughtful gift for someone who is always the strong one?
A year of the Flexi app, so the person who checks on everyone gets a few minutes a day that are only theirs.
Do the gifts ship together?
Each piece is made to order by our makers, so pieces may arrive on different days. Order early for the holidays.
Questions people ask
What is a funny gift for an overthinker?
A Got Overcontrol? mug or notebook. They will laugh, then quietly use it every day.
Are there gift sets?
Yes. The shop has three ready made gift sets, each priced as a set.
Is the Flexi app a good gift?
Yes, for anyone who holds it together for everyone. It teaches small skills in a few minutes a day.