Got Overcontrol? Goods · from Flexi

Got Overcontrol? goods: little reminders to loosen the grip.

Got Overcontrol? goods are mugs, hoodies, stickers and games for perfectionists, people pleasers and the very composed. Every piece is a small, everyday nudge toward good enough. Made for people who fold their hoodies perfectly. These ones look great a little wrinkled too.

Holiday gifts: order by December 10 for delivery before the holidays. Every piece is printed to order.

The Got Overcontrol? design with Flexi Flexi hugging a heart, Totally Flawsome
Cover of Good Enough on Purpose, with Flexi on a dark blue background
New ebook · PDF · instant download

Good Enough on Purpose: all 86 skills in one book.

Every Flexi Method skill on one spread: one line, three steps, a real life picture and a funny line. Plus a skill finder, the five patterns and 12 ready lines for saying no and asking for help. $19.99, yours to keep.

Get the ebook: 86 skills, $19.99 PDF
New deck · 74 practice cards

Totally Flawsome: flaws and all, still awesome.

Replay one typo all night? Draw a silly card, laugh at the flaw and turn the inner critic down. Digital $19.99, printed $69.99.

Read the free guide: how to be okay with making mistakes
Shop Totally Flawsome: 74 cards, flaws welcome
The card game

Draw a moment. Pick a skill. Try it for real.

A cooperative game where everyone wins together. Flip a moment card, choose the skill that fits, copy Flexi's pose, then go and try it in real life. Every Flexi Method skill is in the deck.

See how to play and draw a card

Flexi! The Flexi Method Card Game

$149.99

139 game cards plus 3 rules cards in a tarot size box: 86 skill cards, each with its own Flexi pose, 26 Moment cards, 6 Wobble cards, 6 Grip or Loosen? cards and 15 Edge Questions. Play with your Peeps or Solo.

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  • For home, groups and sessions
  • Ships in the United States
View the Flexi! card game in the shop

Three cards, front and back

The front shows Flexi's pose, the skill and one small thing to try. The back explains the skill, when to reach for it and a picture to remember it by.

Settle and Signal card, front
Front
Settle and Signal card, back
Back
Kind No card, front
Front
Kind No card, back
Back
Good Enough Gold card, front
Front
Good Enough Gold card, back
Back
Flexi decks

One deck for the moment you are in.

Rough week, big feelings, a stuck project or a holiday table? Each Flexi deck is a set of practice cards for one kind of moment. Every card points to one Flexi Method skill, with Flexi's pose and three small steps you can try today.

Shop the printed decks, $69.99 each Printed tarot size cards in a sturdy box, made when you order. Prefer your phone? Digital decks are $19.99 each.
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  • Written by a licensed clinical social worker
Gift sets · ready to give

Give the gift of good enough.

Three ready made sets. Order by December 10 to have yours in time for the holidays. Gift sets or single pieces. Mix it your way.

The Recovering Perfectionist Kit

$179.99

The Flexi! card game, a sticker sheet and a latte mug. The gift for the person who redoes the email three times.

  • Flexi! card game
  • Totally Flawsome latte mug
  • Recovering Perfectionist sticker sheet
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Totally Flawsome Trio

$69.99

The latte mug, the mouse pad and the laptop sleeve together. A small, daily yes to being human.

  • Totally Flawsome latte mug
  • Totally Flawsome mouse pad
  • Totally Flawsome laptop sleeve
View the Totally Flawsome Trio

Got Overcontrol? Desk Set

$49.99

For the very composed at work: the mug, the notebook and the mouse pad, all in the Got Overcontrol? design.

  • Got Overcontrol? 11 oz mug
  • Got Overcontrol? notebook
  • Got Overcontrol? mouse pad
View the Got Overcontrol? Desk Set

Mugs, hoodies, stickers and more

Totally Flawsome, Got Overcontrol?, Flexi stickers and gift sets all live in the Flexi shop. New to Flawsome? Read what Totally Flawsome means.

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Printed when you orderEach piece is made for you, so nothing goes to waste.
ShippingUnited States only. Shipping is shown at checkout. Most orders arrive within one to two weeks.
ReturnsIf something arrives damaged or misprinted, contact us and we will replace it.