Got Overcontrol? goods: little reminders to loosen the grip.
Got Overcontrol? goods are mugs, hoodies, stickers and games for perfectionists, people pleasers and the very composed. Every piece is a small, everyday nudge toward good enough. Made for people who fold their hoodies perfectly. These ones look great a little wrinkled too.
Holiday gifts: order by December 10 for delivery before the holidays. Every piece is printed to order.
Good Enough on Purpose: all 86 skills in one book.
Every Flexi Method skill on one spread: one line, three steps, a real life picture and a funny line. Plus a skill finder, the five patterns and 12 ready lines for saying no and asking for help. $19.99, yours to keep.
Totally Flawsome: flaws and all, still awesome.
Replay one typo all night? Draw a silly card, laugh at the flaw and turn the inner critic down. Digital $19.99, printed $69.99.
Read the free guide: how to be okay with making mistakesDraw a moment. Pick a skill. Try it for real.
A cooperative game where everyone wins together. Flip a moment card, choose the skill that fits, copy Flexi's pose, then go and try it in real life. Every Flexi Method skill is in the deck.
See how to play and draw a cardFlexi! The Flexi Method Card Game
$149.99139 game cards plus 3 rules cards in a tarot size box: 86 skill cards, each with its own Flexi pose, 26 Moment cards, 6 Wobble cards, 6 Grip or Loosen? cards and 15 Edge Questions. Play with your Peeps or Solo.
- Ships now
- For home, groups and sessions
- Ships in the United States
Three cards, front and back
The front shows Flexi's pose, the skill and one small thing to try. The back explains the skill, when to reach for it and a picture to remember it by.






One deck for the moment you are in.
Rough week, big feelings, a stuck project or a holiday table? Each Flexi deck is a set of practice cards for one kind of moment. Every card points to one Flexi Method skill, with Flexi's pose and three small steps you can try today.
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- Paid safely through Apple, Google or Shopify
- Written by a licensed clinical social worker
Give the gift of good enough.
Three ready made sets. Order by December 10 to have yours in time for the holidays. Gift sets or single pieces. Mix it your way.
The Recovering Perfectionist Kit
$179.99The Flexi! card game, a sticker sheet and a latte mug. The gift for the person who redoes the email three times.
- Flexi! card game
- Totally Flawsome latte mug
- Recovering Perfectionist sticker sheet
Totally Flawsome Trio
$69.99The latte mug, the mouse pad and the laptop sleeve together. A small, daily yes to being human.
- Totally Flawsome latte mug
- Totally Flawsome mouse pad
- Totally Flawsome laptop sleeve

Got Overcontrol? Desk Set
$49.99For the very composed at work: the mug, the notebook and the mouse pad, all in the Got Overcontrol? design.
- Got Overcontrol? 11 oz mug
- Got Overcontrol? notebook
- Got Overcontrol? mouse pad
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