Real, Not Shiny
Let people see an ordinary, imperfect you instead of a polished image, a little at a time.
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The handmade mug
The thumbprint in the clay is what makes it yours.
How do I try it right now?
Share one ordinary, imperfect thing about your day.
What Flexi says in the Short
Keeping up a polished image?
This is Real, Not Shiny.
Let people see an ordinary, imperfect you instead of a polished image, a little at a time.
Picture it: the handmade mug. The thumbprint in the clay is what makes it yours.
Try it: Share one ordinary, imperfect thing about your day.
Questions people ask
What is Real, Not Shiny?
Real, Not Shiny is a Flexi Method skill in the Bend group (FM 5.9). Let people see an ordinary, imperfect you instead of a polished image, a little at a time.
When should I use Real, Not Shiny?
Reach for it when this sounds like you: Keeping up a polished image?
How do I practice Real, Not Shiny?
Share one ordinary, imperfect thing about your day. The Flexi app shows the pose to copy and the steps, then you tap I practiced this.
