Free skill · FM 8.1 · 08 Signal

Spot the Push

Notice when your signals push people away.

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Updated October 27, 2026
Flexi Short · Signal

No sound needed. Flexi does it, you copy it.

Picture it

The keep out sign

Crossed arms and short answers hang a sign you never meant to post.

How do I try it right now?

Show what a closed, guarded face looks like, then a welcoming one.

Flexi
Tried it? That counts. Tap the button and Flexi gives you a small nod. Nothing is saved. Practice it again in the app any time.

What Flexi says in the Short

Pushing people away?

This is Spot the Push.

Notice when your signals push people away.

Picture it: the keep out sign. Crossed arms and short answers hang a sign you never meant to post.

Try it: Show what a closed, guarded face looks like, then a welcoming one.

Questions people ask

What is Spot the Push?

Spot the Push is a Flexi Method skill in the Signal group (FM 8.1). Notice when your signals push people away.

When should I use Spot the Push?

Reach for it when this sounds like you: Pushing people away?

How do I practice Spot the Push?

Show what a closed, guarded face looks like, then a welcoming one. The Flexi app shows the pose to copy and the steps, then you tap I practiced this.

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