Bend the Rule
Weigh what a strict inner rule gives you against what it costs, then try a looser version.
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Training wheels
Some rules helped you balance once. Now they slow you down.
How do I try it right now?
Name one rule you live by, like "never be late," and try a softer version today.
What Flexi says in the Short
Living by strict rules?
This is Bend the Rule.
Weigh what a strict inner rule gives you against what it costs, then try a looser version.
Picture it: Training wheels. Some rules helped you balance once. Now they slow you down.
Try it: Name one rule you live by, like "never be late," and try a softer version today.
Questions people ask
What is Bend the Rule?
Bend the Rule is a Flexi Method skill in the Open Up group (FM 3.4). Weigh what a strict inner rule gives you against what it costs, then try a looser version.
When should I use Bend the Rule?
Reach for it when this sounds like you: Living by strict rules?
How do I practice Bend the Rule?
Name one rule you live by, like "never be late," and try a softer version today. The Flexi app shows the pose to copy and the steps, then you tap I practiced this.
