Free skill · FM 5.1 · 05 Bend

Feedback Friendly

Hear what stings, keep what helps and try one change.

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Updated October 27, 2026
Flexi Short · Bend

No sound needed. Flexi does it, you copy it.

Picture it

The gold pan

Shake out the dirt and keep the nuggets.

How do I try it right now?

Say, 'Thanks for telling me. Tell me more.'

Flexi
Tried it? That counts. Tap the button and Flexi gives you a small nod. Nothing is saved. Practice it again in the app any time.

What Flexi says in the Short

Feedback stings?

This is Feedback Friendly.

Hear what stings, keep what helps and try one change.

Picture it: the gold pan. Shake out the dirt and keep the nuggets.

Try it: Say, 'Thanks for telling me. Tell me more.'

Questions people ask

What is Feedback Friendly?

Feedback Friendly is a Flexi Method skill in the Bend group (FM 5.1). Hear what stings, keep what helps and try one change.

When should I use Feedback Friendly?

Reach for it when this sounds like you: Feedback stings?

How do I practice Feedback Friendly?

Say, 'Thanks for telling me. Tell me more.' The Flexi app shows the pose to copy and the steps, then you tap I practiced this.

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