Free skill · FM 5.11 · 05 Bend

Totally Flawsome

Name a flaw you pick on, say it out loud, then add: and this part of me is welcome too.

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Updated October 27, 2026
Flexi Short · Bend

No sound needed. Flexi does it, you copy it.

Picture it

The bowl mended with gold

The crack becomes part of what makes it beautiful.

How do I try it right now?

Name one thing you pick on, then add: and this part of me is welcome too.

Flexi
Tried it? That counts. Tap the button and Flexi gives you a small nod. Nothing is saved. Practice it again in the app any time.

What Flexi says in the Short

Picking on yourself?

This is Totally Flawsome.

Name a flaw you pick on, say it out loud, then add: and this part of me is welcome too.

Picture it: the bowl mended with gold. The crack becomes part of what makes it beautiful.

Try it: Name one thing you pick on, then add: and this part of me is welcome too.

Questions people ask

What is Totally Flawsome?

Totally Flawsome is a Flexi Method skill in the Bend group (FM 5.11). Name a flaw you pick on, say it out loud, then add: and this part of me is welcome too.

When should I use Totally Flawsome?

Reach for it when this sounds like you: Picking on yourself?

How do I practice Totally Flawsome?

Name one thing you pick on, then add: and this part of me is welcome too. The Flexi app shows the pose to copy and the steps, then you tap I practiced this.

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