Free skill · FM 6.4 · 06 Get Curious

Ripple Check

Pause and notice how your words and actions land, on you and on the people around you.

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Updated October 27, 2026
Flexi Short · Get Curious

No sound needed. Flexi does it, you copy it.

Picture it

The pebble in the pond

Every word makes ripples. Watch where they land.

How do I try it right now?

After a chat, ask yourself how the other person seemed to feel.

Flexi
Tried it? That counts. Tap the button and Flexi gives you a small nod. Nothing is saved. Practice it again in the app any time.

What Flexi says in the Short

How did that land?

This is Ripple Check.

Pause and notice how your words and actions land, on you and on the people around you.

Picture it: the pebble in the pond. Every word makes ripples. Watch where they land.

Try it: After a chat, ask yourself how the other person seemed to feel.

Questions people ask

What is Ripple Check?

Ripple Check is a Flexi Method skill in the Get Curious group (FM 6.4). Pause and notice how your words and actions land, on you and on the people around you.

When should I use Ripple Check?

Reach for it when this sounds like you: How did that land?

How do I practice Ripple Check?

After a chat, ask yourself how the other person seemed to feel. The Flexi app shows the pose to copy and the steps, then you tap I practiced this.

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